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How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild)
Male multiple orgasm and other secrets for prolonged lovemaking
by Dr. Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.
Copyright 1994
CONTENTS
Introduction
Acknowledgments
ONE Making Fantasy a Reality
TWO Meet Your Penis
THREE Talking to Your Partner About Male Multiple Orgasm
FOUR The Complete PC Workout
FIVE Male Multiple Orgasm-The Secret Revealed
SIX Learning to Touch, learning to Feel
SEVEN Aroused and Aware
EIGHT Orgasm, Ejaculation, and You
NINE From Peaks to Plateaus
TEN Your First Multiple Orgasm
ELEVEN Practice, Practice, Practice
TWELVE Success!
APPENDIX Interesting Things to Read
ONE When You're Not Having Sex
APPENDIX Male Sexual Organs
TWO (diagram)
Introduction
Daniel and Allison have been making love on a rainy Sunday
morning, and they are both totally turned on. It started in the
shower with a slow massage and moved to the bedroom, where they have
been having intercourse for the past ten minutes. Daniel knows that
Allison needs at least another five minutes of intercourse before
she can climax. Here's the problem: Daniel doesn't think he has five
minutes left in him.
If Daniel continues having intercourse the way he has for the
past ten minutes, it may be only a matter of seconds before he has
an orgasm. He thinks about slowing down or stopping, but to break
the rhythm now would only make it more difficult for Allison to
climax-he knows that Allison is at that stage where any kind of
change in his movement would only frustrate her. Besides, if he
tried to stop or to change the rhythm, Daniel could lose strength in
his erection, which would complicate matters even further.
This dilemma is making the whole experience a lot less
pleasurable for Daniel. The first few minutes of sex were pure
excitement, but now he is worried and conflicted. It is hard to
enjoy sex when you're fighting your own body. Truth is, you really
can't enjoy sex when you're fighting your own body. And neither can
your partner.
What Daniel does not yet know is that he has another option:
male multiple orgasm. The multiorgasmic man has staying power. He
doesn't have to hold back. He doesn't have to fight his own body and
deny himself his own pleasure. He can enjoy all of the erotic
sensations of intercourse, have a full orgasm, and keep going! If he
wishes, he can have a second orgasm, and keep going! He can last as
long as his partner wishes, experience all of the excitement and
release, and keep going! For the multiorgasmic man, the sky is truly
the limit.
Daniel is not the only man who has this exciting option. Today,
techniques have been perfected to make male multiple orgasm an
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option for almost every man! Age doesn't matter. Previous experience
doesn't matter. Young or old, virgin or veteran, all you need is the
desire, your penis, and a few minutes a day. So don't stop now. Turn
the page and cross the threshold into a whole new sense of your own
sexuality and a whole new relationship for you and your partner.
Acknowledgments
There are many people I would like to thank. First, I wish to
thank my colleagues, Anita Banker and Michael Riskin, for helping
develop many of these techniques. I would like to thank my agent,
Barbara Lowenstein, for recognizing the value of this project. I
wish to thank my editor, Susan Moldow, and her staff, Nancy Peske
and Wendy Silbert, for their very conscientious work on this book. I
would especially like to thank my clients who tried out these
techniques and gave me their invaluable feedback. Finally, I would
like to thank my husband, John, for his computer work, his feedback
on the manuscript; and his support.
Some of the exercises in this book involve orgasm. Having an orgasm
increases your heart rate. If you have a heart condition or any
other serious medical condition, please consult your physician
before beginning this or any other exercise program.
CHAPTER ONE
Making Fantasy a Reality
Every woman dreams of being with a lover whose passion is so
intense and body is so strong that he can last and last and last.
Every man wants to be able to fulfill those dreams. He wants to know
that he can have intercourse for as long as he wishes, bringing his
partner to climax after climax. It certainly sounds wonderful, but
is it possible?
You are about to learn the secrets of male multiple orgasm. By
the time you have completed this book, your understanding of sexual
potential and sexual power will be changed forever. You will learn
how to prolong lovemaking for as long as you and your partner
desire. Men will learn how to master their own bodies. They will
learn how to have complete, powerful orgasms without losing their
erections, and how to have multiple orgasms-two, three, or even
more-just like a woman.
I know that this may be hard to believe. It's hard to imagine
that such sexual powers could exist for anyone. Maybe for a twenty-
year-old with unlimited energy or some yogi with extraordinary
abilities, or maybe at the beginning of a torrid love affair, if you
should be so lucky. But not for your average guy. No, for most
normal men with normal sexual equipment, it seems like making love
all night whenever you want-no matter how long you've been married
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or how old you are-is a fantasy. Until today. Today, everything is
going to change; today, those fantasies are going to come true.
In this book, I'm going to teach men how to explore and enjoy
their sexuality in ways they may not have believed possible. I'm
going to prove to you that male multiple orgasm is not just part of
some romance writer's imagination, but an easily attainable reality.
You are going to discover how a multiorgasmic man can offer his
partner a level of pleasure and fulfillment more intense than either
one of them could have ever hoped for.
The ability to control one's penis-to literally stay up all
night-is not the exclusive domain of Eastern masters. There are
plenty of men who have already learned to control their erections in
ways you would find hard to imagine. These men can have multiple
orgasms without losing their erections (two orgasms, three orgasms,
or even more if they choose). They drive their women wild hour after
hour, night after night. They're doing it right now-and they'll
still be doing it long after you've gone to sleep.
These men are not sexual supermen. They are normal, average
guys. Some are young, some are old, some are tall, some are small,
some are thin, some are overweight, some are bashful, and some are
bold. Some have large penises, some have small penises, some have
thick penises, and some have slender penises. Some have sex once a
week, and some have sex almost every day. The only thing these men
all have in common is the desire to please themselves and pleasure
their partners, and the discipline to master a simple technique.
I know over two hundred of these men personally. They are not
friends or lovers, but they are men who have learned the secrets of
male multiple orgasm and staying power at the various therapy
clinics where I have worked. Over the past ten years, I have had the
opportunity to train more than one hundred of these men, one on one,
from start to finish. The rest are men whose training and progress I
have been at least partially involved with through my clinical work.
What I'm trying to say, without sounding intimidating or
otherwise off-putting, is that I have seen many men become
multiorgasmic and increase their staying power. And there is
something extremely important you need to know before you read any
further: I have never met a motivated man who couldn't master the
techniques that lead to male multiple orgasm. Never. I know that
every man who reads this book and follows the exercises I describe
can master these techniques too.
If you are a woman reading this book, extraordinary surprises
and unimaginable pleasures await you. Whether you choose to work
with your partner as he learns these techniques, or be a supportive
bystander, your understanding of what it means to be intimate with a
man is about to be redefined forever.
If you are a man reading this book, you are, about to enter
into a new relationship-a new and exciting relationship with your
own penis. You will never be the same. The payoffs are unlimited-
payoffs for you, payoffs for your partner, and payoffs for your
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relationship. By the time you finish this book and complete the
simple exercises I describe, you will be a changed man. After you've
had your first multiple orgasm, you won't believe you waited this
long, but you will believe in yourself and in the power of your own
sexuality.
What Makes Me Such an Expert?
I know more about men's penises than most men do. It's my job.
I'm a sex therapist.
I'm also a former sex surrogate. A female sex surrogate is
someone who teaches men how to control and improve their sexual
performance and enjoy their own sexuality.
To be a sex surrogate you have to know men and you have to know
men's penises. Truth is, you have to know men's penises better than
most men do. Sure, the typical man knows what he likes and dislikes,
he knows his strengths and weaknesses, and he may even be keenly
aware of his fears and what he believes to be his limitations. But
from where I sit, this awareness is very limited. When you work with
hundreds of men, you see things that no one man could ever see for
himself. You recognize how easy it is for a man to have sexual
tunnel vision because of the limitations of his own experience. You
also realize how different men are, and how much there is to learn
from the experiences of other men.
I Know What Men Can Do and I Know What Women Want
I have made the study of human sexual response my life's work.
I know what the average man's true capabilities are, and believe me,
they are far more than you could-ever imagine.
I know what women want too because I'm not just a sex
therapist-I'm also a woman. I understand how a woman feels when
she's in bed with someone she loves. On a professional basis, I've
listened to countless women talk about their lovemaking. But even
more revealing in some ways are the hours I have spent talking about
sex with women friends, all of us letting our hair down and telling
the truth about what we like and what we want.
Even a woman who loves a man very deeply can feel frustrated
and unfulfilled by his sexual limitations. Unfortunately, many women
equate sex with compromise and sacrifice. Few women regularly
experience the kind of lovemaking they dream of, and even fewer
believe it's actually possible. That's the bad news. The good news
is that this is about to change.
If you are a woman looking for more satisfaction from your
partner and more understanding for yourself, I'm going to teach you
everything you and your partner need to know about male multiple
orgasm. If you are a man who is reading this book, I want you to
think of me as a personal trainer-someone who can teach you the
techniques and exercises that will change everything you have ever
believed about sex.
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